Elva Stephens Bowes (circa 1940's)
The world is a little less interesting this week…
Last weekend, Elva (Stephens) Bowes passed away at the age of 91. I had the privilege of meeting her in late 2009 and we spent the afternoon talking about the old Livingstone/Stephens farm. She welcomed me into her home that sat on the very edge of the original farm property and she shared her family’s stories. Elva was a warm and sparkling personality in a tiny package, full of vigour and very independent. I visited her a on a couple of occasions and each time she gave me a hug before I left.
Elva’s favourite flowers were a pink phlox that originated in her mother, Belle’s, garden at the old house. They are beautiful this year and grow in the gardens of Belle’s grandchildren. If you look for the thread – it is always there.
The original farmhouse has changed hands many times and it is rumoured that it will be torn down before the end of the year. It is the end of an era, for Elva’s family and for Muskoka. She will be greatly missed.
Change is a gradual thing. Like the movement of earth, most of the time it seems almost imperceptible until, like an earthquake, the whole world seems to turn on its ear. Eventually all those who remember pass on and history disappears. Thanks to Elva, her father’s farm and Neil Livingstone’s heartbreak will not be lost to history.
Waiting (red chair), 16x20, Private Collection, (from the Livingstone/Stephens House) © 2010 Michelle Basic Hendry
I have been enriched for knowing Elva and many of her remarkable generation that have opened their lives, their family homes and history to me. The paintings and all of my work in the series is dedicated to them and wouldn’t exist without them.
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I am planning to take another short hiatus from the blog to focus on the Muskoka book.
In a few weeks, I begin the search for a farm that was once my great grandfather Kennedy’s. My current residence puts me in easy striking distance of the Simcoe archives and the area the farm is supposed to be. Anyone with experience in genealogy and knowledge of the Barrie/Midland/Wyebridge area – your help and comments would be greatly welcomed! Stay tuned…
My condolences to you in the loss of a piece of history that has obviously been closely intertwined with your own life, in the death of the person who was a link to the past with all its treasures of memory and inspiration. From personal experience with some of the close family losses in my life, and knowing that I am now that link between the past and future, I found that genealogy was a source of both comfort and a sense of keeping the past alive. So much of what we are in our lives today has been influenced and defined by our ancestry, those who came before. By way of a suggestion, I have found Ancestry.ca to be an invaluable source of information, and I expect that the local archives may well be of great assistance as well.
My best wishes to you in your genealogical journey of research and discovery.
Janine
Thanks Janine. Elva has a wonderfully large family that I have been lucky enough to be in contact with. My heart goes out to them at this difficult time. She was, as you say, a treasure. And I like the idea that we become the links to the past…
As for my own family’s farm that seems to have retreated into the fog of history, I do have a membership with Ancestry.ca, however, the documentation I need is too recent (1920’s – 30’s) – so I will be off to the archives. I have found that primary sources (people!) have been the best resources!
Good luck with the book Michelle…we are all waiting!
Thanks, Anita! Plans are to have the writing completely finished – final draft edited in two weeks.
🙁 thats so sad 🙁 both about her and the house
good luck tracking down the farm 🙂
Thanks, Jennifer Rose…
With the passing of each person of Elva’s generation we all lose much which will never come this way again.
That is the absolute truth…
“Change is a gradual thing. Like the movement of earth, most of the time it seems almost imperceptible until, like an earthquake, the whole world seems to turn on its ear.” A perfect statement.
& Good luck with your searches & book.
Thanks Ingrid. 🙂